The world is marking the 20th anniversary of the unthinkable Rwandan genocide these days.
In all of the tales of horror surrounding those dark days, there were tales of hope and heroism.
One was the story of a young man who was one of only twelve people pulled out alive after being buried under a pile of 3,000 corpses in the town of Murambi.
Not too long ago, his terror began anew when those who had committed the massacre were released from prison.
One of the nation's leaders asked him "How do you manage?"
His reply: "I could not do it unless I was convinced that these impossible choices are leading us somewhere".
The impossible choices he had in mind were the efforts in Rwanda to acknowledge the pain of the past, bring reconciliation into the present, and to insure a future free of such horror.
But he had made impossible choices along the way himself, on a personal level.
Choices to survive, to live, to forgive.
My guess is that you may be facing your own impossible choices at this moment.
To trust again.
To step away.
To lean in.
To get back off the mat one more time and keep fighting.
Simply to go on.
A great life is rooted in and flows from such impossible choices. They are only impossible in the moment.
In retrospect, they are the choices that lead you somewhere.
They lead you to greatness.